Going out and approaching women on your own is admirable, but you are missing a massive opportunity. The easiest way to accelerate your progress in advanced game is with a strong support network—specifically, a wingman.
Having a solid wing is an absolute cheat code, allowing you to seamlessly navigate logistics that would completely paralyze a solo guy.
Winging is primarily designed for groups of two women, a scenario that occurs constantly in the real world. Your foundational strategy is to split the set: you converse one-on-one with the woman you’re interested in while your wing isolates her friend.
To prevent infighting and maintain sharp efficiency, the man who opens always chooses the woman he’s interested in first. More important, your wingman must always be the most interesting person in the room to you.
When he enters a set, you do not ignore him; you deliver an intro that highlights his status, immediately transferring that social value to the women.
At an advanced level, timing your entry as the wingman requires deep calibration. If the girls are in motion, you must walk up simultaneously to avoid an awkward, uncoordinated chase. But if they are stationary, wait until the group is completely hooked.
By entering an interaction that already wants to continue, you bypass the friction of the opener entirely. You inherit your partner’s value without looking try-hard.
Conversely, if a set is tanking because one friend wants to leave, step in independently. Open the moving girl as if you don’t even know your wingman so that her negative frame doesn’t poison your introduction.
A major bottleneck for intermediate wings is the “group conversation trap.” They have great four-way banter all night, move venues together, and head home together, never separating.
Because the girls are never left alone, they judge each other, it becomes impossible to get physical, and everyone leaves sexually frustrated. You must establish the precedent of separation early.
Take your girl to the bar while leaving your wing with her friend. This micro-isolation builds comfort, proves safety, and greases the slide for a smooth logistical pull at the end of the night.
You can even leave your wing alone with both girls while you step away, allowing him to build massive comfort by bragging about your best traits in a way you never could yourself.
If you notice your wingman’s girl losing attraction during the comfort phase, strategically switch who you are talking to. Pump up her emotional state with sharp banter, and then hand her back to your partner with her energy completely refreshed.
You can even execute advanced verbal codes like the “Vodka Protocol”—using a phrase like, “We should do shots tonight,” to subtly signal that a set is highly qualified and worth a heavy time investment.
Advanced game is ultimately about knowing exactly when to break the rules. You can even double-open a single woman by fake-competing against your wingman.
By forcing her to choose between two attractive options, her internal script flips from “Am I going home with a guy tonight?” to “Which of these two guys am I choosing?”
Secure a dedicated wing, borrow abundance from your collective frame, and dominate the environment.
—Todd V
