Today, I want to delve into a powerful technique that can elevate your game to a whole new level – Fractionation.
If you’ve ever struggled with attracting women or maintaining their interest, then this concept might just be the game-changer you’ve been searching for.
Game isn’t about relying solely on attraction or comfort. It’s about finding the perfect balance between the two.
And that’s where fractionation comes into play.
Fractionation is more than just a tactic; it’s a foundation upon which all of your interactions should rest, because it’s the key to building both attraction and comfort.
So, what exactly is fractionation?
This concept originates from neuro-linguistic programming and hypnosis, where the process involves guiding someone into a hypnotic trance and then bringing them out of it, repeating the cycle until they go even deeper into the trance.
In the context of dating and relationships, it means oscillating between attraction and comfort, making her comfortable with escalating emotions and fun experiences.
Let me explain further with an analogy.
Having decent calibration is like being a baseball pitcher who can throw the ball accurately right into the strike zone.
When everything is lined up – the batter stands in the batter’s box and the catcher sits crouched behind him, in this analogy – the pitcher can throw a strike right down the middle.
Having fractionation, however, is more like a being guided missile or torpedo that continuously corrects its course as it approaches the target.
Even when things aren’t lined up perfectly, you’re capable of course-correcting to arrive at your destination.
That is the value of fractionation.
It allows you to make real-time adjustments, getting closer to the desired outcome with each iteration.
Fractionation also plays a significant role in physical escalation.
You take two steps forward and one step back.
You push the boundaries of attraction, back off a little when you feel resistance, and then come back stronger when she’s still longing for more.
This approach ensures that she feels comfortable throughout the process, eliminating the pressure of an agenda and allowing her to genuinely enjoy the journey.
Another crucial aspect of fractionation is balancing value and comfort. Too much value can intimidate her, while too much comfort can place you in the friend zone.
By fractionating between the two, you allow her to experience a range of emotions, ultimately building a strong connection without overwhelming her.
So, how do you apply fractionation in your dating life?
It’s about understanding the ebb and flow of the interaction. Flirt playfully, then give her a moment to breathe.
Escalate the tension, then ease off slightly.
Remember, it’s all about reading the situation and adjusting your approach accordingly.
In conclusion, fractionation is the magic ingredient that breathes life into your interactions with women.
By skillfully balancing attraction and comfort, you can take her on a rollercoaster of emotions, leaving her wanting more.
So, the next time you find yourself in an interaction or on a date, remember to incorporate fractionation into your game, and watch as your success reaches new heights.
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– Todd V