When it comes to learning game, going out solo has always been my preferred method.
I started doing daygame alone on my college campus and continued that trend into nightgame once I turned 21.
For me, going out solo is the natural way to learn and practice.
It removes the pressure of having a wingman around, allowing you to focus solely on your interactions.
There’s no fear of judgment or worrying about how your approaches are perceived.
You get to experiment, make mistakes, and learn from them without the eyes of others on you, which accelerates your growth and keeps you more relaxed.
While having a solid wingman can be a huge advantage, it’s essential not to become dependent on one. Too often, guys with wingmen spend the night searching for two-sets where both girls are attractive, which limits opportunities.
Solo game frees you from these constraints, enabling you to approach any set at any time.
Plus, you can focus entirely on your own preferences and timing, instead of coordinating with someone else.
Going out solo also builds character—you learn to handle rejection, push through discomfort, and figure things out independently, all of which are critical for long-term success.
Nightclubs, in particular, are perfect environments for solo game.
They bring together many attractive women in one place, giving you a lot of opportunities to practice. It’s a high-volume, low-consequence setting, meaning you can quickly move on from any potential rejection.
More importantly, nightgame pushes you to be self-reliant, forcing you to develop problem-solving skills and adapt to different social dynamics without leaning on anyone else for support.
So, if you really want to improve your game quickly and build confidence, I highly recommend going out solo.
It’s challenging at first, but the lessons you’ll learn and the character you’ll develop are invaluable.
Give it a shot—you might be surprised by how much better and more liberated you feel in your interactions.
-Todd V
