There’s this myth that approaching women is hard. That you need the perfect line, the perfect vibe, or perfect timing.
Bullshit.
You just need to start.
I hadn’t gone on a pure number-closing rampage in a while. But with two hours to kill before bootcamp, I figured—why not? Let’s find out what’s possible when you drop the excuses, embrace the chaos, and just go.
What I found (again) is this: game is about momentum. Each girl I talked to made the next one easier. I stopped caring about rejection. I stopped overthinking. I just moved—fast, direct, playful. And the numbers piled up.
But the point wasn’t 23 numbers. It was what happens inside you when you let go of outcome and start acting like the man. You get into a flow. Your vibe sharpens. Your instincts kick in. You start saying bold shit that works because you’re not filtering it. You flirt. You tease. You lead. And women respond.
Approach anxiety dies when you’re too busy taking action to notice it.
Some girls were in a rush. Some had boyfriends. Some didn’t even look at me. Who cares? Enough of them responded—and responded well—because I brought the right energy.
Most guys are sitting around, watching the world pass them by. Waiting for the right moment, the right signal, the right motivation.
But the secret is simple: volume creates skill. Skill creates results. Results create confidence. And confidence makes you unstoppable.
So stop waiting.
Start walking.
And go say hi.
—Todd V
