Stop tracking your game like a spreadsheet. Your cold approach isn’t a funnel. You’re not optimizing for KPIs.
You’re becoming a man.
Every guy wants to know: “What’s your conversion rate?”
Like that number is going to unlock something for them.
But here’s the truth . . . I don’t track mine. I don’t care. It’s a distraction.
The real question is: Are you better than you were last month?
Just like poker, knowing your “true win rate” takes thousands of reps.
But if you’re not changing and evolving in those thousands of reps, you’re doing it wrong.
Game is dynamic. Women are different. Context is different. And you should be different too. Measuring your results like some fixed algorithm is missing the point entirely.
You want to track progress?
Track whether you’re growing. Track whether your confidence is higher. Whether you’re leading more. Whether you feel more free.
When I started, I didn’t even have sex for a year.
But my life improved massively. I stopped fearing women. I started enjoying interactions.
My confidence skyrocketed—not just with girls, but in life. That’s the metric.
Want a number? Sure.
I get a number or better in 85% of decent sets. But only about 30% of those turn into dates or results. And that 30% matters way more than the 85%. Because it’s where most guys lose the thread.
They get a number, but it’s weak. Unmemorable. Forgettable.
If you want to play the ratio game, go cherry-pick girls sitting alone with nothing going on. Yeah, your stats will look great—but are you actually improving?
Or just gaming the system?
The only ratio that matters is: You today vs. You six months ago.
—Todd V
