Muscles or Game – The Inconvenient TRUTH for Men

In this time of social media self-promotion, it can seem like the only thing people care about in terms of attraction, is appearance.

So the question, “Do women care about muscles?” may seem asked and answered.

The answer is simple: Yes, they do. 

But there’s a lot more to this topic that will reveal powerful insights into game and attraction, so…

Let’s dive deeper into this topic, shall we?

Firstly, women do care about muscles, but they care in different ways and to varying degrees.

It all ties back to our evolutionary history.

Back in the day, muscles were a sign of survival and athleticism. They helped with hunting, carrying heavy loads, and even self-defense. So yes, having some muscle was a plus.

However, this doesn’t mean you need to become a bodybuilder or start taking steroids to win over the ladies. 

Most women are attracted to men with a moderate level of muscle and athleticism. It’s about finding that sweet spot on the spectrum.

But here’s the catch: Muscles are just one piece of the puzzle. 

Think of it like building a character in a video game. 

You have various attributes, and muscles are just one of them. Sure, they matter, but they’re not the be-all and end-all of attractiveness.

I’ve seen plenty of muscular guys struggle with women while guys with less muscle succeed. 

It goes to show that other factors, like social skills and confidence, are equally important.

Now, let’s address a common dilemma: Should you focus on getting fit before working on your dating game? 

The answer is a resounding no. Don’t wait to get in shape to start improving your dating life. You can do both simultaneously.

Getting fit is undoubtedly beneficial, but it won’t magically make women flock to you. I’ve witnessed guys who spent years perfecting their physique only to find that it didn’t translate to dating success. 

Why? Because game matters more.

The key takeaway here is that while muscles do matter, they are just one piece of the puzzle. 

Don’t become obsessed with them.

Work on improving yourself in all aspects, including your fitness, your finances, and your dating skills.

In the end, it’s about finding that balance and not fixating on any single attribute.

Remember, you are a multi-dimensional individual, and your attractiveness is a sum of all your parts. So, focus on the bigger picture, keep improving, and don’t let muscles become your sole obsession.

Stay balanced and stay confident.

-Todd V

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