The Truth About Dating in Your 30s & 40s

Today, I want to address a question I got about practicing game as an older guy.

“Is 35 too late to start practicing game? Will I only get really good at it when I’m 39 or 40?”

It’s a question that stirs frustration and uncertainty, but fear not, because we’re going to tackle it head-on today.

First off, let’s debunk the myth that age is an insurmountable barrier to improving your dating life.

The idea that as you get older, it becomes harder to change your habits, is flawed.

It’s not about teaching an old dog new tricks; it’s about commitment and persistence.

You can absolutely learn, and master, game at any age.

Now, let’s address the concern that if you start late, you’ll run out of time.

Will you only get good at 39 or 40?

Well, think about it…

Does it really matter if you become excellent at 39 or 40? I’m currently 41, and I can confidently say that my dating life has never been better.

The key is that every step of the dating journey brings significant improvements to your life, so don’t fixate on reaching an expert level right away.

The truth is, game changes you at every stage, making you better not only with women but in all aspects of life. 

From boosting your social skills to handling adversity and sparking attraction on command, the early stages of improvement are genuinely life changing.

Now, let’s talk about how long it might take to see substantial progress.

If you’re dedicated and willing to put in the effort, you can reach a level where you can predictably attract desirable girls within a year, or even faster.

The journey to improvement is quicker than you might think.

Starting game at 35 may not be ideal, but it comes with its advantages, such as having a more established life and valuable life experiences to offer potential partners.

So, don’t let your age hold you back; it’s never too late to start your journey in game.

The right time to start improving your dating life is now, regardless of your age.

Remember that every step of the journey brings life-changing improvements, and the rewards are immense.

So, put aside your doubts, take action, and watch your dating life transform for the better. 

The dating world is waiting for you, no matter when you decide to step into it.

-Todd V

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