Momentum is a physical force in game, and most guys are standing still while the world passes them by.
When I did a 36-hour barrage of game, the goal wasn’t just to stack phone numbers; it was to demonstrate what happens when you decide to be the primary cause of every interaction in your environment.
Most of you are waiting for “the right moment” or a sign from the universe that it’s okay to speak.
Instead, be a man who isn’t afraid to initiate interactions with women.
If I see a woman who stands out, I don’t let her walk past me and wonder “what if” for the next three blocks.
I walk with her. I find out if she’s as cool as she looks. I test her attitude.
I am looking for a reason to keep her in my reality, and I make her earn that spot by displaying value while adding polarization.
You’ll notice that my conversations aren’t safe or polite; they are playful, edgy, and occasionally ridiculous.
I’ll jokingly talk about the girl “stealing my kidneys” or I’ll tease her until she can’t handle it, because that emotional spike is what separates a lover from another “annoying guy” she met at the bar.
If you aren’t willing to give emotional spikes and push the boundaries of a “normal” conversation, you are just background noise.
The secret to consistently advanced game is that I don’t care about the individual “yes” or “no” as much as I care about the social momentum.
Each approach feeds the next one.
By the time I’ve completed a few warmup approaches, my tonality is perfect, my body language is on point, and my frame is so strong that attraction is nearly guaranteed.
Stop treating every approach like a life-and-death mission and start treating it like a high-speed rep.
The more you move, the less you think.
The less you think, the more your natural high-value self can actually come to the surface.
Go out and create your own fate.
Don’t wait for her to notice you. . . . Make it impossible for her not to.
—Todd V
