I’m in the business of telling people what they need (not what they want) to hear.
As a dating coach, I’ve seen tons of beginners go from inexperienced virgins to wildly successful alpha males.
Every so often there comes the student who calls himself a “hard-case newbie.”
And to his dismay, I dish him the truth.
It’s for his own good and long-term growth.
Stop feeding negative thoughts into your brain. They will influence your behaviors and reinforce all that negativity.
Get yourself into a positive feedback loop.
Take the right action, see results, be proud of the results, and ultimately change your identity into that of a strong, confident man who can conquer his goals.