Most guys never get good with women because they never get serious about the process.
They dabble. They binge-watch theory, then vanish for six months.
They go out for two weeks, get frustrated, and disappear again. Or they do the same exact approach a hundred times and wonder why nothing changes.
It’s not that having good game is hard—it’s that most guys aren’t consistent, don’t take risks, and never adjust their approach.
You want to get good fast? Be consistent. Show up. Push yourself every single time.
Take the risks that feel uncomfortable—ask for the number, go for the kiss, take the lead.
These are the moments where progress happens. If you avoid rejection, you also avoid growth.
Second, have a damn plan. Don’t just “go out.” Know what you’re working on.
Are you escalating? Are you making your interactions man-to-woman? Are you closing? Game is a skill, and skills improve through focused reps—not blind repetition.
And finally, learn from someone who’s been where you are but is already where you want to be.
Don’t waste years copying intermediate guys who’ve never evolved. If you model someone stuck at B-level, that’s exactly where you’ll end up too.
If you commit to the process, if you learn from the right sources, if you push through the discomfort and keep leveling up—then in six months, you won’t even recognize yourself.
But it starts with a decision. Stop dabbling. Start becoming a weapon.
—Todd V
